Monday was our 35th wedding anniversary. I recently made this image of Sandhill Cranes (who mate for life) and I thought it would align perfectly with my reflections on the past 35 years:
- I’ve learned that one can survive being taught golf by your husband.
- I’ve learned that women share and men fix, metaphorically speaking. Don’t share unless you are willing to let him tell you how to fix it. Actually, I still haven’t mastered that one.
- I’ve learned that “I can change” means “You’ll get used to it”.
- You do get used to it.
- I’ve learned that I am “high-maintenance” – something my family never got around to telling me.
- I’ve learned that child-rearing represents just a phase of your married life, even though it seems like your entire life while it’s in progress.
- I’ve learned that occasionally spending time apart is a bit like pruning your shrubs – it encourages healthy growth.
- I’ve learned that the things that you believe are so important in the beginning are relatively unimportant years later, and vice versa.
- I’ve learned that you can feel safe and happy with someone without talking or even being in the same room for hours on end.
- I’ve learned that having someone to scratch your head, warm up your coffee and serenade you with “On the Street Where You Live” is worth more than a lifetime of Valentine’s Day dinners out.